the BDSM/Leather Community Dominance Pryamid
Sirs, Masters, Dominant Men
Leather men and fetishests, Leather boys bootblacks and barmen
single boys and neophytes, slaves and subs, pup players and ponie players, objects
in that order and some people need to start remembering that
That is a pretty accurate pyramid. Proportionate to each group size, too, most of the way down the list, at least.